Well, first of all, I want you girls/women to remember that you need to love yourself first before you can love anyone else. It is important to feel happy, be confident and chase away all kind of insecurities before you can
love someone else.
Many people hastily enter relationships seeking security from someone else in order to compensate for their own insecurities. But as nice as it sounds, it will not work.
Think about you first and then think about the other person. It is not selfish, you do not have to feel bad about it. It is just a matter of understanding how the human body works.
What makes you happy will have a positive impact on you, will get you in a good mood and good mood can be shared easily.
You need to love yourself first. Do the things that make you happy and match your personality. Do not change for anyone. You can work on some of your flaws but you cannot pretend to be someone that you are not.
If you are currently in a relationship, you certainly think that you are lucky to have found such a special person. (which is probably true and very wonderful for you ) But, you also need to think that your "soul-mate" is lucky to have you as well. Everything works both ways.
Love yourself, be happy, be you. You only have one life to live, you might as well, think about living a delighted one, with people surrounding yourself who love you for who you are.
With love,
B-lou
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